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Alexia Nepola is providing an replace on the place she stands along with her ex-husband, Todd Nepola.
As she addressed the continuing feud between Julia Lemigova, 53, and Guerdy Abraira, 47, shaded Stephanie Shojaee, 40, and referred to as out Todd, 52, over his false narrative about their break up, the 58-year-old Actual Housewives of Miami star defined why she continued to hook up with Todd post-divorce and weighed in on his reasoning for his or her breakup.
“At present, we’re not speaking. We’re in no contact,” Alexia confirmed throughout a July 24 interview with Leisure Tonight. “I had to decide on me. I needed to do what was finest for me proper now, and for me proper now, I want peace and I want distance and I want readability. It’s actually laborious watching the present, reliving the present after we filmed this over a yr in the past.”
As for why she went again to Todd after their break up, Alexia admitted there have been quite a lot of causes, together with love and closure.
“[But] alongside my journey I’ve realized that the one individual that can provide herself closure is myself, and peace, and therapeutic, so, simply strolling away for me has been one of the best factor as a result of I’m therapeutic on the identical time,” she defined.
As she heals, Alexia stated she’s nonetheless making an attempt to grasp why Todd filed for divorce within the first place. Nonetheless, she does consider that Todd wished to distance himself from RHOM.
“I want it might’ve been dealt with otherwise. We may’ve had the dialog and sat down like two mature, loving adults, and stated, ‘ what? I’m not pleased, and that is what you need.’ And I’d’ve supported it. In fact, you struggle for it not occurring, otherwise you do interventions. However I wasn’t anticipating [him to file],” she famous. “I used to be so blindsided.”
Transferring on to Julia’s habits towards Guerdy, particularly her water toss, Alexia admitted to having regrets about not doing extra.
“I want I’d’ve stated one thing, I’d’ve carried out extra, I’d have stood up for that as a result of my intentions have been by no means to not defend her or for her to really feel like we weren’t supporting her,” she stated of Guerdy. “It crossed a line. No person needs to be disrespected that manner … And I feel as a result of we have been in such shock, we didn’t actually act correctly, like we should always have … I really feel horrible.”
Along with followers seeing extra of the drama between Julia and Guerdy play out, Alexia additionally signaled her feud with Stephanie.
“She continues to come back for me,” Alexia shared.
In keeping with Alexia, her life is far completely different than that of her castmates resulting from her son Frankie’s disabilities, which stem from a horrific automotive accident years in the past.
“As quickly as I get up, my life is completely different … Simply leaving him behind, I’ve to make a lot preparation after I journey … I really like a Birkin bag and I’ve just a few of them, however this isn’t my complete life. She wakes up within the morning and does glam. I get up within the morning and provides Frankie his treatment and make him breakfast,” she famous. “I do all the opposite stuff she does additionally, however I’m simply saying, our lives are very completely different.”
Whereas Todd has prompt that he needed to stroll away from his marriage to Alexia due to the present, Alexia denied that was true.
“I’m not going to let him get away with that narrative and with that story, so far as the present destroyed us, as a result of it’s not true,” she insisted. “I’ve at all times lived my fact. I used to be dwelling my fact by what you’re seeing on TV. Sooner or later it was good, someday it was unhealthy, it was scorching, it was chilly. It was an emotional rollercoaster.”
Though Alexia confessed to seeing indicators that her marriage was in hassle, she stated she selected to not see them as a result of she’s somebody who’s full of hope and a fighter.
“However from that to simply strolling out on me like that, I by no means noticed that coming,” she clarified.
As for whether or not she nonetheless beloved Todd, Alexia stated she did.
“I nonetheless love him, and I wish to see him pleased. I nonetheless care about him. I don’t know the right way to not love him. I’m an individual that I really like all the lads that I’ve beloved, and all of the those that I beloved. I don’t know the right way to not love any individual as soon as I really like them,” she defined.
Additionally throughout the interview, after confirming she at all times wished to work issues out with Todd and gave him the chance to vary, Alexia admitted that reliving laborious moments by the present pushed them again to the place they have been earlier than.
She then shared that she “after all” hopes to search out love once more.
“I really like love. I’m in love with love, and perhaps that’s why I’ve had three husbands. So I’m at all times gonna be open to the concept of falling in love. I don’t learn about marriage. I’ve made quite a lot of nice selections about love, and I’ve made quite a lot of not-so-smart selections, however to me, my life wouldn’t be full with out love and with no accomplice,” she concluded.
The Actual Housewives of Miami season seven airs Wednesdays at 9/8c on Bravo.
